What Is Cuckolding?
Cuckolding Terms to Know:
- Cock = husband or partner seeking the cuckolding
- Hotwife = wife or partner
- Bull = wife’s lover/partner
So, what is cuckolding? Cuckolding is a BDSM fantasy wherein husbands enjoy and feel aroused by watching their wives have sex with other men. Sometimes, they even enjoy being dominated and fucked by the man as well. This arousal and pleasure often stems from the sense of humiliation in a kind of psychological sadomasochism. The husband will often enjoy men that are stronger and bigger than themselves to have sex with their wives and/or partners and they enjoy listening and watching, often times, but sometimes also simply get off from the fact of knowing that their wife or partner has been with another man and does not have to be present during the actual event. Others enjoy the mental anguish of seeing their partner being enjoyed by another and even seeing that their wife doesn’t “want” them anymore due to the pleasure with her new partner. Some husbands or partners enjoy wearing a chastity kit or cock cage to prevent them from having any kind of sexual activity such as masturbation, furthering the humiliation and “suffering.” Others might masturbate during the event and some just enjoy watching and some partners enjoy performing oral sex on the bull afterwards.
The Benefits of Cuckolding
Many husbands and partners who enjoy cuckolding lifestyles express that they enjoy a stronger erection and more intense orgasms having sex after knowing their partner was with someone else. Although not a requirement, the most common cuckold relationships are white men seeking black men to sleep with their wives or older men seeking younger men. Many in this lifestyle claim that it’s a largely mental experience for them and seek out other intellectual partners with whom they can fulfill their cuckold fantasies. Many swinger couples enjoy this lifestyle as it’s a way to maintain an open relationship while staying honest with one another and enjoying a fantasy fulfillment. If you are seeking a bull for your cuckold relationship, you can find potentials at local swingers events or even online hookup sites, but always remember: safety first and have fun! 😉